Divine Bliss Trifle

There’s a certain magic in creating a dessert that leaves everyone speechless, longing for just one more bite. Our signature “Better Than Sex” Trifle Dessert is precisely that—an utterly irresistible, layered masterpiece designed to captivate your senses and elevate any celebration. Forget ordinary desserts; this sensational trifle promises an experience that lives up to its playful name. Paired with a celebratory toast, it’s the perfect centerpiece for unforgettable gatherings, from holiday festivities to special anniversaries.

For those who adore exquisite trifle desserts, we understand the allure of a beautifully layered creation. Our collection boasts other decadent favorites like the Double Stuf Oreo Brownie Trifle, the indulgent OMG Chocolate Oreo Cheesecake Brownie Trifle, the refreshing Strawberry Brownie Trifle Delight, and the opulent Heavenly Chocolate Caramel Cheesecake Brownie Trifle. Each offers a unique symphony of flavors and textures, but none quite compare to the legendary status of our “Better Than Sex” Trifle.

Decadent Better Than Sex Chocolate Trifle Dessert layers in a glass bowl

Indulge in the Ultimate Chocolate Trifle Experience

The intriguing name of this “Better Than Sex” Trifle Dessert often sparks curiosity, hinting at the sheer pleasure each spoonful delivers. While its title is a bold statement, reflecting its undeniable deliciousness, you’re welcome to refer to it by a more demure name if you prefer. This ensures comfort in any social setting, allowing you to sidestep awkward questions about its provocative moniker. However, for those who embrace its spirit, there’s no need for apologies or discretion. Dive headfirst into the luxurious layers of dark chocolate cake, generously drenched in sweet, sticky sweetened condensed milk, lavish salted caramel sauce, crunchy Heath toffee bits, and an abundance of light, airy whipped cream.

The moment these harmonious elements come together, you’ll instantly grasp the justification behind its evocative name. It’s a dessert that transcends expectations, creating a truly unforgettable culinary experience. This classic layered confection has graced many tables under various affectionate aliases, such as the “Robert Redford Dessert” or the “Chocolate Dream Layer Dessert.” You might have even encountered a version of this beloved retro treat in the past. Our “Better Than Sex” Trifle offers a modern, elevated spin on the traditional “Sex in a Pan” cake, transforming it into a magnificent showstopper.

To truly showcase the mesmerizing strata of this chocolate caramel trifle, a clear trifle bowl is essential. Each layer—from the rich cake to the creamy topping and crunchy toffee—becomes a visual delight, promising an exquisite taste adventure that will have your guests raving and coming back for more.

Close-up of Better Than Sex Chocolate Trifle Dessert with visible caramel and toffee bits

Essential Ingredients for Your Decadent Trifle Dessert

Crafting this sensational “Better Than Sex” Trifle requires a careful selection of ingredients, each contributing to its legendary status. Whether you choose to prepare every component from scratch for a truly homemade touch or opt for convenient shortcuts, the result will be a dessert that delights. Here’s a detailed look at what you’ll need:

For the Rich Chocolate Cake Base:

The foundation of this trifle is a moist, flavorful chocolate cake. You can choose to bake a homemade chocolate sheet cake or simplify the process with a high-quality chocolate devil’s food cake mix, prepared in a 9×13 inch pan according to package directions. For a homemade cake, gather the following:

  • Unsalted butter, softened
  • Unsweetened cocoa powder, for deep chocolate flavor
  • Water
  • Optional: Espresso powder, to enhance the chocolate notes without adding coffee flavor
  • All-purpose flour, or a reliable gluten-free flour blend like Bob’s Red Mill for dietary considerations
  • Granulated sugar
  • Baking soda, for leavening
  • Salt, to balance sweetness
  • Large eggs, at room temperature for optimal emulsion
  • Buttermilk, or your preferred milk choice, for moisture and tender crumb
  • Vanilla extract, for aromatic depth

The Irresistible Sweetened Condensed Milk Layer:

This magical ingredient seeps into the chocolate cake, transforming it into an incredibly moist and flavorful base, adding an unparalleled richness. You’ll need:

  • One 14 oz can of sweetened condensed milk

Crafting the Luscious Salted Caramel Sauce:

A homemade salted caramel sauce elevates this trifle, offering a perfect balance of sweet and salty. Alternatively, a good quality pre-made jar of salted caramel sauce can save you time without compromising on flavor. For a homemade version, you’ll need:

  • Granulated sugar
  • Unsalted butter, at room temperature and cut into chunks
  • Heavy cream, also at room temperature, to ensure a smooth, emulsified sauce
  • Flaky sea salt, for that signature salty counterpoint

The Fluffy Whipped Cream Layers:

Light, airy whipped cream provides a beautiful contrast to the dense cake and rich sauces, creating an ethereal texture. You can use:

  • 16-20 oz of prepared whipped topping like Cool Whip, for convenience.
  • Alternatively, prepare fresh whipped cream with 4-5 cups of heavy whipping cream and ½ cup of powdered sugar for a truly luxurious topping.

The Crunchy Heath Bar Layer:

The buttery, crunchy toffee bits from Heath bars add a delightful texture and a wonderful toffee flavor that complements the chocolate and caramel perfectly. You’ll need:

  • 3-5 Heath Bars, chopped into chunks and small bits. For convenience, 10-15 mini Heath Bars or 5-6 Skor bars can also be used.

Assembled Better Than Sex Trifle Dessert showing all delicious layers

Step-by-Step Guide to Assembling Your “Better Than Sex” Trifle

Creating this show-stopping trifle is a joyous process. Follow these detailed instructions to layer your way to dessert perfection:

  1. Preheat your oven to 375 degrees F (190 degrees C). Line a 9×13 inch baking pan with parchment paper and lightly spray it with non-stick cooking spray. This ensures easy removal of the cake.

Preparing the Chocolate Sheet Cake:

Whether you choose homemade or a mix, a tender chocolate cake is key. If using a mix, prepare it as directed on the package for a 9×13 inch sheet pan. For our homemade version:

  1. In a large mixing bowl, whisk together the dry ingredients: all-purpose flour, granulated sugar, baking soda, and salt. Set this aside.
  2. In a medium saucepan, combine the unsalted butter, unsweetened cocoa powder, water, and optional espresso powder. Bring this mixture to a gentle boil over medium-high heat, stirring continuously until smooth and all the cocoa has fully dissolved.
  3. Carefully pour the hot chocolate mixture over the reserved dry ingredients. Whisk thoroughly until the batter is smooth and free of lumps.
  4. Add the buttermilk (or milk of choice), vanilla extract, and room temperature eggs to the chocolate batter. Whisk again until all ingredients are completely combined and the batter is uniform.
  5. Pour the prepared cake batter into your lined 9×13 inch pan. Bake for 22-25 minutes, or until a gentle press on the cake’s center causes it to spring back. A wooden skewer inserted into the center should come out with moist crumbs, not wet batter. Allow the cake to cool slightly in the pan before cutting it into approximately one-inch squares.

The Sweetened Condensed Milk Soak:

This step infuses the cake with incredible moisture and sweetness.

  1. Evenly pour the entire can of sweetened condensed milk over the slightly warm chocolate cake squares in the pan. Ensure every piece is generously coated. Place the cake into the refrigerator while you prepare the whipped cream and salted caramel sauce (if making from scratch) to allow it to absorb the milk.

Crafting Your Salted Caramel Sauce:

A homemade salted caramel adds unparalleled depth. If using pre-made, simply warm it slightly for easier drizzling.

  1. In a medium, heavy-bottomed saucepan, place the granulated sugar. Heat it over medium heat, stirring constantly with a heatproof spatula or wooden spoon. The sugar will gradually melt and form clumps before completely liquefying into a smooth, amber-colored caramel. Watch carefully to avoid burning.
  2. Once a deep amber color, immediately remove the saucepan from the heat. Carefully add all the room temperature, chunked unsalted butter. Be cautious, as the caramel will bubble and steam vigorously. Stir vigorously until the butter is fully incorporated and the mixture is smooth.
  3. Next, gradually add the room temperature heavy cream, stirring continuously until the sauce is uniform and silky. Stir in the flaky sea salt. Pour the finished salted caramel sauce into a glass jar or heatproof container and let it cool slightly before using. It will thicken as it cools.

Preparing the Whipped Cream Layer:

For a light, airy topping that balances the richness:

  1. If making fresh whipped cream: In a large, chilled mixing bowl, combine 4-5 cups of cold heavy whipping cream and ½ cup of powdered sugar. Beat on medium speed for about 1 minute, then increase the speed to medium-high. Continue beating for approximately 5 minutes total, or until stiff peaks form. Be careful not to overbeat, or you’ll end up with a lumpy, butter-like consistency. If using Cool Whip, simply ensure it’s thawed and ready to use.

Preparing the Heath Bar Layer:

For that delightful crunch and buttery toffee flavor:

  1. Finely chop the Heath candy bars into small bits and larger chunks. Set aside for layering.

Assembling the Grand “Better Than Sex” Trifle Dessert:

Now for the exciting part – creating those beautiful layers in your trifle bowl!

  1. Begin by placing half of the sweetened condensed milk-drenched chocolate cake cubes evenly into the bottom of your trifle bowl or large glass serving dish. Press them down gently to form a solid base.
  2. Generously drizzle a portion of your homemade or store-bought salted caramel sauce over the cake cubes.
  3. Sprinkle a handful of the chopped Heath Bar bits evenly over the caramel-drenched cake layer.
  4. Carefully spoon or pipe a thick layer of whipped cream over the Heath bits and cake. Use an offset spatula to smooth it out.
  5. Repeat the layers one more time: add the remaining chocolate cake cubes, drizzle with more salted caramel, sprinkle with more Heath bits, and top with the remaining whipped cream. For an elegant finish, pipe a decorative border of whipped cream around the edge and garnish with extra salted caramel sauce and a final scattering of Heath bits. Remember, the more layers and toppings, the merrier and more visually stunning!
  6. For the best flavor and texture, refrigerate the trifle overnight or for at least 6 hours. This allows the flavors to meld beautifully and the cake to fully absorb the liquids, resulting in an exceptionally moist and tender dessert. Then, it’s time to party and enjoy your magnificent creation!

Tips, Shortcuts & Creative Variations for Your Trifle Masterpiece

This “Better Than Sex” Trifle Dessert is wonderfully versatile, allowing for both culinary ambition and convenient shortcuts. Here are some ideas to make it uniquely yours or simplify the process:

  • **Time-Saving Shortcuts:** Don’t hesitate to use a chocolate cake mix for the cake base, and readily available store-bought whipped topping (like Cool Whip) and pre-made salted caramel sauce. A Devil’s Food cake mix works exceptionally well for a rich chocolate flavor. These shortcuts significantly reduce prep time without sacrificing much flavor.
  • **Cake & Brownie Swaps:** While chocolate cake is traditional, feel free to experiment with a brownie mix or even homemade brownies for an even denser, fudgier base in this chocolate trifle recipe. A yellow cake or even red velvet cake could also offer an interesting twist!
  • **Caramel Choices:** If you prefer the classic sweetness of caramel without the salty kick, simply use regular caramel sauce instead of salted caramel. Both homemade and store-bought options are delicious.
  • **Exciting Mix-Ins and Toppings:** Elevate your trifle with additional layers of deliciousness! Consider adding chopped Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups for a chocolate-peanut butter explosion, or incorporate chopped Oreo cookies or Oreo crumbs between the layers for extra texture and flavor. Other great additions include toasted pecans, chocolate chips, or even a layer of fudge sauce.
  • **Fruit Forward:** For a lighter, fresher take, consider adding sliced bananas, raspberries, or strawberries between the layers. This can add a vibrant color and a pleasant tartness.
  • **Nutty Enhancements:** Toasted chopped nuts like walnuts or pecans can add another layer of crunch and earthy flavor.

Top view of Better Than Sex Trifle Dessert garnished with caramel and toffee

It’s truly challenging to resist the alluring charm of this “Better Than Sex” Trifle Dessert. Its layers of rich chocolate, gooey caramel, crunchy toffee, and fluffy cream create a symphony of textures and tastes that is simply divine. This sensational layered dessert is perfect for feeding a crowd at any occasion, ensuring everyone leaves happy and utterly satisfied. Be warned, though: its addictive nature might just have you reaching for a second, or even third, round! So, let’s raise a toast to new beginnings, joyful celebrations, and this magnificent trifle. Enjoy every glorious bite!

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Better Than Sex Trifle Dessert Recipe

By Kim Lange

This Better Than Sex Trifle Dessert is a layered dream! Indulge in rich chocolate cake soaked in sweetened condensed milk, generously topped with luscious salted caramel sauce, buttery Heath toffee bits, and a mountain of fluffy whipped cream. It’s a crowd-pleasing dessert perfect for any celebration, guaranteed to leave everyone delighted and craving more.

Prep Time: 20 mins

Cook Time: 30 mins

Chill Time: 4 hrs (or overnight)

Yields: 12 Servings

Course: Dessert

Cuisine: American

Keywords: chocolate trifle, layered dessert, salted caramel, Heath, easy trifle, dessert for a crowd

Ingredients

For the Chocolate Sheet Cake (or 1 Chocolate Cake Mix + Ingredients for 9×13 sheet pan)

  • 1 cup unsalted butter
  • ½ cup unsweetened cocoa powder
  • 1 cup water
  • Optional: 1 tablespoon instant espresso powder
  • 1 ¾ cups all-purpose flour or gluten-free flour (e.g., Bob’s Red Mill)
  • 1 ¾ cups granulated sugar
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • 2 large eggs, room temperature
  • ½ cup buttermilk or milk of choice
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract

For the Sweetened Condensed Milk Layer

  • 1 (14 oz) can sweetened condensed milk

For the Homemade Salted Caramel Sauce (or 1 jar pre-made Salted Caramel Sauce)

  • 2 cups granulated sugar
  • 12 Tablespoons unsalted butter, room temperature, cut in chunks
  • 1 cup heavy cream, room temperature
  • 1 tablespoon flaky sea salt

For the Whipped Cream Layers

  • 16-20 oz prepared whipped cream (like Cool Whip) OR 4-5 cups heavy whipping cream + ½ cup powdered sugar (to make fresh whipped cream)

For the Heath Bar Layer

  • 3-5 Heath Bars, cut into chunks and small bits (or 10-15 mini Heath Bars / 5-6 Skor bars)

Instructions

  1. Prepare Pan: Preheat oven to 375°F (190°C). Line a 9×13 inch pan with parchment paper and spray with non-stick cooking spray. Set aside.
  2. For the Chocolate Sheet Cake (Homemade Version):
    1. In a large bowl, whisk together flour, sugar, baking soda, and salt. Set aside.
    2. In a saucepan, combine butter, cocoa powder, water, and optional espresso powder. Bring to a boil over medium-high heat, stirring until smooth and cocoa is dissolved.
    3. Pour the hot chocolate mixture over the dry ingredients and whisk until smooth.
    4. Add buttermilk, vanilla, and eggs. Whisk until completely combined.
    5. Pour batter into the prepared pan and bake for 22-25 minutes, or until the top springs back when gently pressed. Cool slightly, then cut into one-inch squares.
  3. Sweetened Condensed Milk Layer: Pour the sweetened condensed milk evenly over the cake squares. Place the cake in the fridge while preparing other components.
  4. Homemade Salted Caramel Sauce:
    1. Place sugar in a medium, heavy-bottomed saucepan. Heat on medium, stirring constantly, until it melts and turns amber.
    2. Remove from heat, immediately add all butter (it will bubble vigorously). Stir until incorporated.
    3. Add cream and stir well. Stir in the salt. Pour into a glass jar and let cool slightly.
  5. Whipped Cream Preparation:
    1. If making fresh whipped cream: In a large, chilled bowl, beat 4-5 cups heavy whipping cream and ½ cup powdered sugar on medium for 1 minute, then medium-high for about 4-5 more minutes, until stiff peaks form. Do not overbeat.
    2. If using pre-made whipped topping, ensure it’s thawed.
  6. Heath Bar Layer: Chop Heath candy bars into desired chunks and bits. Set aside.
  7. Assemble the Trifle:
    1. Place half of the sweetened condensed milk-drenched chocolate cake cubes into the bottom of your trifle bowl.
    2. Drizzle generously with salted caramel sauce.
    3. Sprinkle a portion of chopped Heath Bar bits over the caramel and cake.
    4. Spoon or pipe a thick layer of whipped cream over the Heath bits.
    5. Repeat all layers one more time: remaining cake cubes, more salted caramel, more Heath bits, and finally, the remaining whipped cream.
    6. Garnish with additional salted caramel sauce and Heath bits on top.
    7. Refrigerate overnight or for at least 6 hours to allow flavors to meld and textures to set. Serve chilled and enjoy!

Notes

  • For quick shortcuts, utilize a chocolate cake mix, pre-made whipped topping, and store-bought salted caramel sauce.
  • If you prefer, regular caramel can be used instead of salted caramel.
  • Consider adding other mix-ins like chopped Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups, Oreo crumbs, or sliced bananas for variety.

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